Dating brothers ex girlfriend
For a long time I hoped my sister would break up with her boyfriend, but now after 20 years, I think they are in a life time commitment.
Most of my family despises him because of the things he's done to my sister in the past but his biggest critics are the ones who are putting my sister up on a pedestal she doesn't deserve to be on.
That should have been left between the two of them.
I do not know how long she and her Ex were divorced they got back together briefly or how her relationship with your brother was at the time.
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. if she is a cheater it's quite possible that he's going to need you in his corner more than ever, soon... Grow up and get your own life and get your nose out of your brother's. But foremost, it's his choice, you can't change that.
My brother has been seeing his g/f for about one year now. I know this is really my thing but how do I get past these feelings? and your willingness to support him will let him know that you're there for him no matter what Who are you to judge her? All you can do is let him know how it made you feel, and let him know you love him enough that you don't want to see him go through the same thing. You can let it go by knowing you've done everything you can and it's up to him. If you want to let it go, you need to sit down and have a conversation with him about it.
They live states away, yet visit each other when they can. Have you never made a mistake (even those big, 'unforgivable' kind)? Just seriously tell him, "I do not like her, and I probably never will like her.
Because if he's sharing private info, wanting your shoulder to cry on then expects you to just forget about it when he goes back to her...he's creating the problem.
I think it's great that you're concerned about your brother's well-being.
That you're actively looking out for him shows a lot about your character.
I would say that if he is happy with her, it is his choice. As long as he is not blind to a toxic current relationship -- it's his business. Hoew do you personally wrap your brain around it, acept it, and try to like her? For me, I' d probably figure that I didn't know much about the real story that led up to the cheating ...
Maybe you never will like her, but you can be civil and nice to her for the few times you will see her ..your brother's sake. I'd try to imagine the least offensive scenario, if I had to think about it at all.