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If a bunch of Westerns go out to the club and one of the girls meets a guy she likes and is making out with him then the rest of the group won’t judge her too badly for it.
If a bunch of Asians go out to the club together, however, and one of the girls ends up making out with a guy she just met the rest of the group will wonder if she is drunk or a hooker.
In the West, when you ‘neg’ a girl you are directly stating what your value is by showing willingness to break rapport.
Asians almost never break rapport, they merely become neutral, which has a lot to do with saving face for yourself and the other person involved.
Mystery’s ‘kiss her’ routine is a good defensive play, but I like to very quickly start destroying his mind with meaningless drivel, as I’m passing my phone to the girl to get her number or moving her to a different part of the club.
In the West, girls value guys who are obviously more masculine in physical appearance and behaviour, which means not being ‘needy’ in behaviour or conversation.
Culture plays the biggest role in why cocky and aloof don’t work well in Asia.
To get around this, I typically use a range of gestures or expressions when first meeting a woman.
This can be done by acting aloof or saying ‘cocky’ things.
Essentially the more easily you ‘show yourself’ to Western people the lower your perceived value is.
In the West, girls can make their own money and be independent.
By contrast, Asian girls focus on how much you care about them, and want to stay with them, because they don’t have the same financial security and earning opportunities as Western women do.